Life at New Haven Friends Meeting extends beyond Sunday worship. We gather for business meetings, learn together in study groups, serve on committees, and build community through shared meals and activities. Whether you're drawn to spiritual exploration, hands-on service, or connecting with others, there are many ways to participate in our Meeting's life.

Our Programming

Meeting for Business

What is Meeting for Business: We gather monthly to address the practical and spiritual concerns of our Meeting through prayerful discernment. Rather than voting, we seek unity by listening deeply to each other and the Spirit's guidance. All members and attenders are welcome.

Topics include: Committee reports, financial matters, building care, community concerns, and social action

When: Third Thursday of each month at 11:00am after Meeting for Worship.

Where: In-person and on Zoom

New? You're welcome to join and observe.

Children’s Programs

We welcome children of all ages at New Haven Friends Meeting. Professional childcare is available for infants and toddlers during worship and Meeting events. Our First Day School nurtures children from preschool through high school in Quaker values, history, and spiritual practice through age-appropriate activities, stories, and exploration.

Fellowship & Community Events

We gather weekly and monthly for study, fellowship, service, and fun. View our calendar for times.

Bible Study

Explore scripture and spiritual texts together as we seek deeper understanding of God, the Holy Spirit, Jesus's ministry, and our own spiritual lives. Weekly

Spiritual Formation

A space to explore your spiritual life in fellowship with others, grounded in the Quaker belief that there is that of God in every person. Open to all. Biweekly

Peace & Social Outreach

Supports our commitment to peace, social justice, and racial equity through member leadings, guest speakers, partnerships with organizations, and annual grant distribution. Monthly

Stitching

Gather for handwork, conversation, and tea in friendly company. Whether you're an experienced crafter or just learning, all are welcome to stitch and connect. Weekly

Holiday Gatherings

We celebrate the seasons together with special gatherings throughout the year. Check our calendar for upcoming events

Informal Gatherings

Connect over potlucks, game nights, and other casual get-togethers. A chance to build friendships and enjoy each other's company. Various dates—see our calendar

Get Involved Through Committees

Our Meeting has no paid staff—members and attenders volunteer their time, mostly through committees. Serving on a committee is a great way to get to know people and help create a vibrant community.

All committees are open to everyone except Ministry & Counsel. Committee terms run from July 1 to June 30, and most people serve for several years. Each committee has a clerk who organizes and coordinates the work. Most committees meet monthly.

Interested in joining a committee? Speak with any Meeting member after worship to connect you. Check our calendar for meeting times.

  • Prepares business for Meeting consideration, conducts Meetings for Business in a worshipful spirit, and discerns when unity has been reached. Maintains business meeting records and handles Meeting correspondence.

  • Builds community through hospitality. Arranges after-Meeting refreshments, potlucks, and social celebrations that bring Friends together. text goes here

  • Supports families and oversees children's programming, working with paid teachers, caregivers, and volunteers. Plans curriculum, childcare, and multigenerational activities like the Christmas pageant and game nights.

  • Helps the Meeting make financial decisions clearly and thoughtfully. Oversees Meeting finances, prepares the annual budget, and ensures regular audits are performed.

  • Nurtures the spiritual and community life of our Meeting. Oversees worship, membership, marriages, memorial services, and special gatherings. Provides compassionate care for those facing illness, loss, or life challenges.

  • Maintains stewardship of the Meetinghouse, caretaker home, and grounds.

  • Coordinates First Day School, Bible Study, Quaker Study, and Spiritual Formation programs to foster collaboration and share resources across educational activities.

  • Discerns and appoints clerks, committee members, and representatives to wider Quaker organizations. Members serve three-year terms and are chosen for their seasoned judgment and knowledge of the Meeting community.

  • Sets up and manages audio-visual equipment for Meeting for Worship and other gatherings, including Zoom, TV, and sound systems. Available to support other Meeting events as needed.

Join Our Newsletter

Join our mailing list for Meeting for Worship schedules, upcoming events, and community updates.